#principle
> A good dating relationship is a friend, teacher, family and soulmate
## Godly
- Treat your love one as a son or daughter of god
- follow the bible
- have spiritual conversations
## Purity
> [!tip] 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5
> *It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God.*
- The more public, the better
## Seeking Advice
- have someone more mature than you hold your relationship accountable
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```mermaid
flowchart LR
Initmacy <--> Partnership
```
## Intimacy
- between two persons
- feel like having your own space for two persons
- be a soulmate who he/she can expose himself/herself completely
## Partnership
- two person as one, face the outside world together
- learn together, grow together, achieve the goal together
- hold each other accountable, support each other when having difficulty
- challenge each other to grow, get out of comfort zone and acknowledge mistake